Boyfriend gets all pleasure in sex

Boyfriend gets all pleasure in sex
My boyfriend is very passive in sex and wont even lovingly touch me during intercourse or foreplay.
I have to do it all he will just have it. In the end he say i didnt give him a chance but always i got to make first move..
Its alswys same sex routine all days, I give him an oral sex then i have to do sex for him with on top position and then i must end it with masturbating him. All the time he will just lie there, and to make htings worse he is watching porn on net. WHats all this nonsense means?? He is not interested in me?

Clearly, you deserve to get as much pleasure as your boyfriend seems to be having, both by yourself and with your boyfriend. It's also possible that your boyfriend is uneducated rather than selfish. His track record in other areas of your life is the primary indication of that.

Over a cup of coffee, how about just saying, "Honey (or whatever name you usually call him), you know I'm not having orgasms with you, and I'd really like to, and I think this is how... If you touch me in a certain spot in a certain way, and I moved in a special way, I think it would work. Why don't we try it? Or, "How about when we are getting it on, I'll show you what I think might work?" Another way to communicate your message is to actually show your boyfriend what to do while you are having sex, by taking his hands in yours and moving them the ways you like being touched.

You also might need to slow your boyfriend down. Sometimes young men are in a hurry to get to the goal, intercourse, and they forget the pleasant part of the journey. They race through three bases, ignoring any feelings along the way, to get to home base. But if there isn't enough stroking, kissing, caressing of a woman's body and of her clitoris, the woman's pleasure center, then vaginal penetration by fingers or by a penis can be boring, unpleasant, and even painful.

You and your boyfriend may also benefit from a little "research" to learn more about sexual response in women. Most men are eager to learn to please their partners. They long to be even better lovers... Your boyfriend may just need to know to please you and you are the only one who can teach him about the unique way you come. If this seems hard to do, just remember your potential for pleasure together, and then tell him that you don't want to miss another opportunity with him for pleasure

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